Someone Sane: Ingrid Loyau-Kennett

In the mad and vicious attack on 25 year old, Drummer Lee Rigby in Woolwich, south London, sanity appeared on the number 53 bus.

It was in the form of Ingrid Loyau-Kennett. She had been a Brownie (Cub Scout) leader and, when she saw the situation, she acted with compassion and competence.

She did what she could for Lee then calmed the men who seemed to be the assailants. This is what she reported:

“I was just on my way home after a trip to France. I was visiting my children in Plumstead and I had taken a 53 bus to get to Parliament Square where I was going to meet my children and walk to Victoria coach station before getting the coach to Helston in Cornwall.
 “I was sitting on the lower deck and the bus stopped. I could clearly see a body in the road and a crashed car. I trained as a first aider when I was a Brownie leader, so I asked someone to watch my bag and then got off to see if I could help …(read the rest at the bottom of this blog)

Is there Sanity Somewhere?

We were searching for some sanity in this madness, so we put Ingrid’s words through the impartial, unemotional assessment provided by DeepWord. This is what we found.

Ingrid was focused essentially on action. DeepWord identified that she was primarily speaking about “moving and changing”.

Compare that with the guy (the British media are identifying him as Michael Adebolajo) who appeared on video holding a knife and a cleaver with bloodied hands.DeepWord said he was “noting and informing”. That means thatfor the time being, he had passed the stage of expressing himself emotionally and physically.  But, Ingrid was on high alert. She was more engaged than he was, at that time.

Amazingly, Ingrid reported a Silent Stance of being “partly closed.” That could be her normal state. If so, she talked to the two “assailants” in exactly the same Stance that they were in at that time. (See the previous blog on the alleged perpetrators.)

If you ever want to see a person who is on their toes, see how Ingrid deals with this incredibly dangerous situation. DeepWord sees that during her report she is feeling “attentive, expectant, and serious.” She is focused and ready. Bet you anything, she was the same in that desperate situation in Woolwich.

So, what about her deeper motivations? Ingrid, according to DeepWord’s deeper analysis of her language, is driven by a sense of being “deliberate, distant, and assertive.”

We think that you could not get a better person on the ground at that time than Ingrid Loyau-Kennett. She assessed the situation, engaged with it but was not emotionally carried away. Then, she asserted her right to her actions and her beliefs with the perpetrators. That must be courage personified.

We have only one word in relation to Ingrid: Hero!

See the deep insight that DeepWord provides.

Links

http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2013/may/22/woolwich-first-person-account

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2013-05-23/london-terrorist-attack-soldier-killer-named/4709928

Continuing the Quote

“I went over to the body where there was a lady sitting there and she said he was dead. She had comforted him by putting something under his back and a jacket over his head. I took his pulse and there was none. I couldn’t see the man’s face but I could see no evidence that suggested someone had tried to cut off his head. I could see nothing on him to suggest that he was a soldier.
 “Then a black guy with a black hat and a revolver in one hand and a cleaver in the other came over. He was very excited and he told me not to get close to the body. I didn’t really feel anything. I was not scared because he was not drunk, he was not on drugs. He was normal. I could speak to him and he wanted to speak and that’s what we did.
 “I spoke to him for more than five minutes. I asked him why he had done what he had done. He said he had killed the man because he [the victim] was a British soldier who killed Muslim women and children in Iraq and Afghanistan. He was furious about the British army being over there.
 “There was blood on the pavement by the car where the man on the ground had been hit by it. At first there was no blood by the body but as I talked to the man it began to flow which worried me because blood needs a beating heart to flow. But I didn’t want to annoy the man by going back to the body.
 “I asked him what he was going to do next because the police were going to arrive soon. He said it was a war and if the police were coming, he was going to kill them. I asked him if that was a reasonable thing to do but it was clear that he really wanted to do that. He talked about war but he did not talk about dying and then he left to speak to someone else.
 “I went to speak to the other man who was quieter and more shy. I asked him if he wanted to give me what he was holding in his hand, which was a knife but I didn’t want to say that. He didn’t agree and I asked him: ‘Do you want to carry on?’ He said: ‘No, no, no.’ I didn’t want to upset him and then the other man came back to me. I asked him what he wanted to do next.
 “At that point, there were so many people around that I didn’t want him to get scared or agitated. I kept talking to him to keep him occupied.
 “Then I saw my bus was moving and I knew that the police would arrive very soon. I asked him if there was anything else I could do for him because my bus was about to leave and he said no.
 “I got on the bus and, after 10 seconds, someone came on and told everyone to get down. I saw a police car pulling up and a police man and policewoman getting out. The two black men ran towards the car and the officers shot them in the legs, I think.
 “When the shooting started, I was not scared. There were so many women screaming and crying on the bus, it took me a minute to calm them down. I didn’t have a moment to think of myself.
 “I could see the man with the black hat on was badly hurt as he was being operated on but both were still moving. “The bus then started to move away. They dropped us in the middle of Lewisham which really annoyed me because I had no idea how to get from there to Parliament Square.
 “I am just happy that I managed to do something that might have prevented more trouble. I feel fine at the moment but I suppose the shock could hit me later.”

 

Co-creator of DeepWord. Creator of Infra Language.

Posted in Behaviors, Certainty, Commitment, Crime, Inspiration, Military, Strength, Taking personal control, Terrorism, Women
6 comments on “Someone Sane: Ingrid Loyau-Kennett
  1. Maria Oporto says:

    A moving and inspiring blog. I utilize DeepWord and am beginning to understand the significance of its impact. How extraordinary! I open two windows on my browser: one for comments, one for my responses. I make them the same.

  2. Great idea. Simple. Practical. We like that.

  3. It is possible that being brave and helping is all about training. My hope is that ordinary people can sometimes become giants in these types of situations. We hope that DeepWord users can experience the same.

  4. Kerry Cluff says:

    Your insights are interesting. Can’t imagine how DeepWord does it. It seems to be accurate. But, how?

    • Behind DeepWord is a dictionary that focuses on intent. It assesses words and word-combinations that relate to Infra Language modes. Obviously, it does a lot more than that, but the intent (or the underlying purpose) of a message is what DeepWord analyzes. Maybe I should provide more technical explanations on the site. What do you think?

  5. In a miserable moment of British history, she’s a shining light.

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  1. Archie Mason says:

    Great post. Well done. She is one of the good ones. You have pin-pointed her strengths and for that I am very grateful. Like you have said, one sane person. Well done, Ingrid.

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